Housing Help That Arrives
Before the Crisis

Lead With Fayeth supports single mothers, families, and individuals across Chesapeake, serving all of Hampton Roads, Virginia, with housing assistance, essential supplies, and the practical support it takes to stay steady.

A group of children standing together in a field with their arms raised toward a sunrise.

Housing Stability Assistance

Direct support for households at risk of losing housing, and help finding a safe place to land for those already without one.

Essential Supplies & Toiletries

Toiletries, hygiene items, clothing, school supplies, cleaning products, and other basic necessities — given freely, without a means test at the door.

Benefits & Resource Navigation

One-on-one help understanding what you qualify for and getting connected to it — so the paperwork stops being the barrier.

Our Approach to Housing Instability

Most families don't lose housing overnight. It happens through a stack of smaller things — a car repair, a reduced shift, a deposit nobody can cover — and by the time a crisis is visible, the cheapest and kindest moment to help has already passed.

Lead With Fayeth works in that earlier window. We meet people where they are, cover the practical gaps, and stay long enough that stability holds after we step back.

653 people counted as experiencing homelessness in the region's Point-in-Time Count
6 cities and counties served by the Southeastern Virginia Homeless Coalition
1,700 square miles across the coalition's service area

Source: 2023 Point-in-Time Count, Southeastern Virginia Homeless Coalition, reported by The Planning Council.

A family with a young child smiling as they are handed keys in a room of moving boxes.
Portrait of Faye, the founder's grandmother.
FayeMy Grandmother

Our Name

Why “Fayeth”

Portrait of Faye, the founder's mother.
FayeMy Mother

My mother's name was Faye. My grandmother's name was Faye. Both of them are gone now, and both of them are the reason I have any faith at all.

My grandmother was a pastor and a foster mother. She adopted more than eight children and raised them as her own. And when a family had nowhere left to go, she didn't hand them a phone number — she opened her door and let them stay until they could get on their feet. She never called it a program. It was just what she did, for as long as it took.

My mother was a caregiver for people with disabilities. She spent her days making sure other people were looked after, and she did it while fighting sickle cell — a warrior in the truest sense, carrying her own pain quietly and still finding something to give to everyone around her. She had the same heart her mother did.

Two women, one name, one instinct:
when you have something and someone else doesn't, you share it.

I can't keep a house the way my grandmother kept hers, and I can't give the way my mother gave while she was hurting. But I can do what they did in the way that's available to me now, and I can do it with people who want to help. That's what Lead With Fayeth is: their hearts of gold, kept going.

Every gift here becomes a deposit covered, a box of supplies for a family that arrived with nothing, a month where somebody gets to breathe. That's the door, held open.

Destinee Roberson Founder, Lead With Fayeth

Help Hold the Door Open

Why Early Support Matters

Helping a family keep the housing they already have costs a fraction of rehousing them later — and it spares them the part that's hardest to undo: the disruption to a child's school year, a job, a support network built over years.

Every dollar given here goes toward that earlier, quieter intervention.

Ways to Help

What's Coming Up

Events & Drives

Come out, drop something off, or bring a friend. Every drive runs on what the community brings to it.

Sep 5–6 2026
Accepting Donations

Back to School Drive

Backpacks, notebooks, pencils, and clothes for children heading back to the classroom — so no child starts the year without what they need. Donations welcome now; volunteers needed both days.

Nov 21–22 2026
Accepting Donations

Thanksgiving Drive

Holiday meals and essentials for families who would otherwise go without. Donations welcome now; volunteers needed both days.

Dec TBA 2026
Date To Be Announced

Christmas Drive

Gifts, winter clothing, and household basics for children and families across Hampton Roads. Details coming soon.

Want to donate goods, volunteer, or host a collection box at your workplace or church? Get in touch — we'll tell you exactly what's needed.

With Gratitude

Our Community Partners

None of this happens alone. These are the businesses, churches, public servants, and neighbors who show up for Hampton Roads families alongside us.

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Partner With Us Businesses, churches, civic leaders, and organizations who want to stand behind this work. Start a conversation →

Need Help? Start Here.

You don't need to have everything figured out before you reach out. Tell us what's happening and we'll tell you honestly whether we can help, and who else to call if we can't.

  • Tell us what you needFill out the form, or call us directly. Say as much or as little as you want.
  • We'll respond within 2 business daysA real person reads every message that comes in.
  • We work out a plan togetherWhether that's supplies, housing support, or a referral that fits better.

In immediate danger or crisis?
Call or text 988 for the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, or dial 911. For housing crisis intake in Chesapeake, call the city's Housing Crisis Hotline at 757‑227‑5932.

What you share stays between you and our team. We never sell or share your information.

Get Involved

Three ways to put something behind this work, whatever you have to give.

Give

Make a Donation

One-time or monthly. Recurring gifts are what let us promise a family something before the money is in hand.

Donate now →
Serve

Volunteer

Help sort and pack supplies, drive deliveries, or lend a professional skill — bookkeeping, grant writing, case support.

Get in touch →
Supply

Donate Goods

Toiletries, hygiene products, cleaning supplies, and new household basics. We'll tell you what's short this month.

See what's needed →